Tuesday, April 30, 2024

God is in the little things

 I have some angst since Monday. Ruth Sundermeyer is a beloved neighbor next door. She texted me about returning her key. I vaguely remembered the conversation about the key but had no idea where it was. I know that Nate and Kelsi were invited to bring their kids over to sleep on a bed - but we found enough air mattresses so they didn't have to. I asked them if they happen to have Ruth's house key. Nope. I searched all over where I might have put it. No luck.

I finally concluded that I had lost it. Not good. Ruth is such a good neighbor I didn't want there to be any bad feelings. So of course I said a prayer. And there it was, under an apron on the bulletin board I hang extra keys, aprons, and receipts or messages. Thank you, thank you God for tiny miracles. It could easily have been swept up in all the other garbage going out. Interestingly, last Sunday I gave my testimony of God hearing and answering prayers.  And here He is doing it again, and again.



Every four years

 Last night we had a great empty nester family home evening - which was another farewell to the Adams. Jeffrey realized as we were walking in that we have had  farewell evenings in 2016, 2021, and now 2024. The Nausin hospitality is really wonderful. Some in the family battled Covid about two weeks ago, and are just functioning nicely again, so this was a real treat.

How fun to sit down with friends in a beautiful setting when the weather is great and just chat eating good food. Ideal. 

Regg and Debbie Penovich 


The Gordon Family

Kim Kruse

Kelly Kruse

Laura Nausin - hostess 

Dana Nausin - host

Brian and Kim Panter

Jameson Panter

Joann Magleby and Emily

Emily Eskelson

Ralph Magleby

Bonnie and Ken Carter


Kylie Lambert - soon to be married in August

Ralph and Chelly Lambert
Wonder where we'll be four years from now.......

End of a Chapter

 I have found that packing up the house and leaving it empty, is a clear indication that this is the  end of a chapter. 

I am throwing out the taped up bulletin board that held our calendars for many years - scheduling rides to and from schools, soccer, piano, cross-country, flags, church, vacations, and activities. 

We have sorted out shelves and desks, cupboards and closets. It feels like this part of our life is finished. The last two times we come back from abroad to our family, it was a continuation of life as it has always been. Though we noticed big changes, it still felt like Jeffrey and Linda Ann parents coming home to kids. 

But the next time we come to this house it will be a new move, a new ward, a new life, a new neighborhood. Life after living in Africa. Life after raising children.

Our kitchen is done!!!

Yeah, Dan and company finished my kitchen off beautifully and pulled up the protective cover from the floor. I have the new sliding door, new cabinets, sideboards, sink, and lights. I am happy to have fully functioning electrical units and all the trim looking so nice! I get to enjoy it for the coming week.




When Andrew comes in June, he and Briona will see the house in all its new glory. The walls will be painted, the popcorn ceilings gone, and the bathrooms will have little odd jobs to make them lovely. I told him to make a video for me. 

Isn't this grand?!

Sunday, April 28, 2024

Farewell Sunday

 Michael, Julia, Makynlee, and Isla came to church today because we had our farewell talks. Mine was short and to the point, Jeffrey's was impressive. I am glad it is over. There was a linger-longer after church that made it nice to talk with friends. I actually was happy to see Sister Moore because I needed her to help me out with a project. She likes to wear hats and today she had a great purple one. She was easy to spot and find even though she is a tad short. I love her style!

I was happy to see the Penovich's because we don't see them as often now that they are serving in the Spanish branch.  Debbie and I used to do such fun things together when we had little kids. I value her friendship very much - and now we are running off again!

Michael and all the girls came to our house after church. Michael and his family are seeing us off. As a single young man, he saw us off on our first mission to the Philippines at the MTC in Provo, and then got married while we were out in Quezon City. Rachel saw us off to Ghana in 2020 and now Michael and his family are seeing us off this time to Ghana. Ah, life is great!


Aren't these girls adorable! They dance.

Makynlee, Michael, Julia, and Isla

Farewell Sunday



Hey, We can see the door again!

 Years ago, Anthony Durst put a pocket door in the kitchen between the front door and the kitchen sideboards. It was very convenient when there were dishes in the sink and someone came to the front door. It was also very convenient when there would be guests in the front room who needed a little privacy.

But one day it got stuck in the wall and has been there for years. Yesterday, Dan freed it from the wall and put a new track in so it will slide properly. Yeah! Another element of our old house being resurrected like new! It has been so fun to watch the house slowly come together again.






Saturday, April 27, 2024

It's All Done!

 The yards and outside house painting is all done! I think it looks great and it is so nice to have something completed. Done. Finished. I think it looks great and we've had a few neighbors who have thanked us for getting the job done......I think it adds to their property value....still I am happy to be a good looking neighbor now.

Home Sweet Home

I like the crisp, clean look of the dark blue

The inside is still a work in progress. Dan has assured us he will be done with his part on Monday. He said he'd stay late if it wasn't done. The next Thursday we have the packers coming to pack the Accra unit for shipping, then on Friday and Saturday they will pack up our house for storage.  I think Jeffrey said Allied is coming. After we leave, Rob will have painters come in for the inside painting and he will make sure the finishing touches i.e. the faucets work and any little things that need to be done before renting.

Andrew is the only one in the family that will see all the completed work! He will stay in June until he goes for the family reunion - well, sibling reunion. Rob will then have the house cleaned and the Villars will move in!

My friend asked how I feel --- well --

Happy and excited - to go to Accra, to have the outside of the house look so good.

Frustrated - the kitchen and windows are not done, the details to work out haven't all worked out i.e. phone, cat placement, banking, etc., etc. 

Lucky - how many people get this opportunity to visit other places and have adventures? Not a lot. 

Thankful - The Lord has really been blessing us with little answers every day, with this opportunity and challenge.

A little sad - to not see the grands and my friends for so long. the fact that my house will be all shiny and new and I won't see or stay in it.

Glad - that I have children, grandchildren, good friends and siblings and relatives. Glad that we have the chance to see London, Zimbabwe, Africa in different countries, and a chance to do good for someone.

And finally a little stressed to get done with the sorting, deciding, and packing up. I am praying all goes well on Thursday through Saturday of next week......I talk in church tomorrow. I hope no one expects a long talk from me.....God is in the details.



Wednesday, April 24, 2024

Getting together for Lunch

 As the story goes, months ago - probably in July, Debbie and Matthew were at our ward and attended the linger-longer after church. Someone said that Andrew told Debbie that a certain gentleman could help her mom with her genealogy (or was it that he knew Chinese?). Debbie introduced herself to the man, Lee Pearce, and after they got talking for a bit, she got his information to give to her mom.

Laurie Hendersen, Debbie's mom had some records that she needed translated so she could do her genealogy work. She had at least up to her great-grandfathers' names, maybe more. It was a great match. 

Some months later I was talking to Laurie and she asked if I knew Lee Pearce. I did not. Jeffrey knew who he was, but I had never met him. Laurie was looking to give him a big thank-you.

Brother Lee Pearce didn't stop with just the names Laurie gave him. He did some research, listened to podcasts and even bought into a few sites. I can't remember where or when but he found out there were thousands of names from the village Laurie's great-grandfather lived in, placed in the granite vaults in Utah years ago. He got access to those records on microfiche (I think) and has started translating them so Laurie and her family can go to the temple and do the work for them. 

I think it is fascinating that Laurie (the only member of the church from her greater family) is the one who was given this opportunity to find thousands of her relatives (back to 200 AD!) that someone else had put in Family Search.

I got acquainted with Brother Pearce when he became a teacher in Primary. I said hello knowing Laurie wanted to meet him. They posted back and forth and then invited Jeffrey and I to lunch with the both of them. Laurie came down from the Sacramento area to meet at the restaurant in Walnut Creek. 

If you like Chinese dumplings - this is the place for you! https://www.creekhousedimsum.com/


Brother Pearce had many stories to tell us - from his mission to Hong Kong and his miraculous stories of how he got work, got married, came to San Francisco and then Concord, and now is doing a great work in genealogy

I, Lee Pearce, Laurie Hendersen, Jeffrey Adams

Sometimes you get blessings just by showing up! Jeffrey and I had nothing to do with any of the miracles, effort involved, or introducing someone to someone. just the fact that we know each participant. So Nice!


Hansen's and Key Lime Pie

 We were invited over to visit with Stan and Lisa Hansen along with the other missionary couple who got back a while ago, the Perona's. Lisa had beautiful quilts lining a cabinet and draped over the back of chairs. They were very beautiful, colorful, and showed meticulous work. Jeffrey and I grilled Stan on the color of his house as we wanted the same dark blue that he had. 

We had a fun night with lots and lots of stories. Jeffrey and I were shocked to find we had spent four hours in a blink of an eye. Lisa served really good food which I had to get the recipes for. Then she served up Key Lime Pie. Oh my.... I do not believe I have ever had a homemade Key Lime Pie. Now that was an experience! Life is so good.

Linette and Cliff Perona 
Yummy salad, pasta and vegetables, and homemade bread

Stan Hansen

Lisa Hansen

After a few hours of talking, we had dessert!


Lisa put whipped cream on her pie and then served it up

Linette put tiny shreds of lime zest on each piece

The men found more things to talk about while the women were in the kitchen

We went out to the patio where Stan lit the rocks and we sat around in the cool of the night eating absolutely delicious Key Lime Pie. 




Luis Peña Painting

 A shout out to Luis Peña Painting for the great job painting the exterior or our house. Tomorrow he informs me that they will be done!!

First I come home to a great yard in the front and the back - all done and looking good. Maintenance has already begun. It all looks great!

On the 18th the painting crew came over to prep by sanding, caulking, and repairing items needed like gutters. That went on for a few days and then another day of priming. Yesterday they begin painting and it was a little interesting to have the windows covered. It looked like we were in a heavy fog. But when the plastic came down, we went out to see a really good looking paint job. Tomorrow the front and top should be done or almost done. This team is fast and very good.

If you need your house painted in California Bay Area, call Luis Peña at 209-204-1397 cell 

or 209-537-6450 phone.

Luis Peña inspecting work








Quick Trip to Redding

 On April 13th, the day after we got back from our Utah trip, we made a quick trip up to Redding. Caleb was being baptized and asked me to give a talk and Jeffrey to confirm him. His dad baptized him. It was so nice to see the families again for a short while and to share with Caleb our joy in the gospel of Jesus Christ. It is interesting the choices that very young people make can stay with them their whole life.

Matthew gave a talk about the Holy Ghost. Here are the grands except Emma who were there.


Just before friends arrived.

Grandpa and Grandma Bettridge traveled from Idaho to be with Caleb on his special day.

Debbie's selection of music was inspirational and moving.

Little Emma Rose Adams


Nate and Kelsi Adams family

Lilly, Nate Kelsi with Emma on her lap, Jayson, and Caleb Adams