https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2025/04/57nelson?lang=eng
You can listen to President Nelson's Conference address, "Confidence in the Presence of God" in the above link. I have been thinking about it for a few weeks now.
As you may or may not know, I am a visual and manipulative learner. Jeffrey is an analytic learner, and I know a few auditory learners also. But I am a hands on or "show me through a story" type of student. Words just fly over my head unless I can "see" them. So....President Nelson's talk in conference........
As a preface, Michael is the only one who said, "Whatever", when I asked if I could talk about him on my blog. I got a few adamant no's and some maybe not's from the others. So just because I'm using Michael's story doesn't mean God isn't in the details of my other children.
So Michael's Eagle project story came to mind while studying President Nelson's talk about charity and virtue being vital to approaching God.
First, I obtain an assurance:
I asked if an Eagle project could drop into Michael’s lap as the other two projects we came up with didn’t thrive. Todd Porter said benches were needed at a day care for those waiting to pick up their children.
Second, I was not defensive, critical, or judgmental of those who declared the project was too hard and would take too long for the time allotment. That falls under charity.
Third, while asking for God’s continual help, we didn’t waver through roadblocks and obstacles in doing this project. Virtue is steadfastness, excellency, value, etc. We tried to do the very best we could on this project while negotiating approval (I personally wrote Michael’s project up with the fussy, persnickety woman who gives final approval in mind). Michael built a model out of popsicle sticks. According to Michael’s report, she was amazed and loved the project and write-up. Another of God’s tender mercies.
Keeping the assurance in mind and counting each miracle, we persevered (virtue again) in getting supplies, people, safety measures, and permissions needed. I think God touched a few hearts as some of those who said it couldn’t be done were our greatest strength in completing the project.
President Nelson promised: “We will begin to experience spiritual power that exceeds our greatest hope.” Micheal and I can witness that God does answer our prayers, he will turn hearts toward us. He can make things happen that ‘exceed our greatest hope.’
The last example is on the day Michael and I were trying to get everything lined up for his board of review. We had spent the greater part of the day after school (he got out early that day) making sure we had every bit of paperwork done – meaning we were running around to stores getting safety specifics – so that the director at the scout office would sign off.
The director looked through the papers, found them in order – and then said, “You don’t have your reference letters yet.” He wanted to put signing off to another month. When Michael came out where I was waiting in the car and told me what the man said – I reminded Michael of all the miracles that had happened and told him to go back and show the man the policy in the directions that said we didn’t need the reference letters to get signed off. As Michael went in again, I prayed that the man’s heart would be softened, and permission would be granted. It was.
I know that trying to do the right thing, not getting defensive or judgmental at people, and remaining steadfast with the assurances from God will make miracles happen.
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Michael and Michael getting their Eagle Scout awards together
p.s. I was dismayed to find I hadn't written up this miraculous story in 2011 or 12! Listening to conference.......makes a difference. |